“The secret of fortune is joy in our hands.”  Emerson They’re out to get you.  Who or what?  Circumstances.  Whether they are malevolent or benevolent depends on what you look for.  Just as a paranoid person sees and hears mean forces conspiring to trip him or her up by saying cruel things, so does a pronoic person tend to see friendly, celebratory forces out to make life a bounteous pleasure.  Go through life with cracked eyeglass lens and you’ll see a fragmented, cutting world.  Go…